Ha
ha! And you thought I had disappeared from the face of the earth, hadn't you? Well, that was not the case, as you can see, though I have been too tired/lazy/busy to really blog. So let me catch you guys up.
To start, I'm dating someone, who we will call Tr. He's a pretty cool guy. To continue, S is being--to put it veeeeeery bluntly--is a bitch. Now, you may think I'm saying this unfairly, or that I'm not giving him a chance, blah blah blah, but hear me out. To start, J, Tr and I are all friends. J is an ex and he has no problem with Tr. In fact, he invited Tr and me to a little shindig that happened at his townhouse a few weeks ago. There was some drinking, some Rock Band-ing and S was there. I wanted no trouble so I kept interactions with Tr at the friend level and low-key. And S seemed pretty cool about it. And I was like "huh, cool."
The next day I went over to the townhouse to chill with J and I passed S on the way and gave him a pretty neutral "hi." He didn't say anything, but I thought nothing of it. Then, as I hung out with J, I got a few texts from him, and they went something like this:
"Where's your boytoy? If you want somewhere to spoon you are welcome to use my bed. I recommend you start by sucking his dick."
Okay, woah. Too far sir. The thing is, the texts irritated me at best. I ignored them and went on with my life. But seriously, is that necessary? If there is any ex that should hate me it's J: while we were dating S was telling me to break up with him, and in the end I did and went straight to S (not my greatest moment, but J was such an asshole then; he's shaped up since). So it irritates me that S, who I cleanly broke up with and for whom I gave the courtesy of waiting before dating again, is the one who is acting like this.
Whatever. It's his loss. He's a senior and is graduating soon; as awful as it sounds I'm not really up to the effort and drama that will ensue if I try to become friends with him again.
In related news, J moved out of the townhouse and into a (pretty awesome, if I say so myself) super single in one of the other dorms. He's been saying he wanted to move out for a while, since he's lost all patience with the guys in the townhouse (L, P and S). They stay up late and are noisy, and he hears them talk shit about everyone (especially when A is around, who J completely and absolutely loathes).
He tried to get me to take sides in regards to A, but there's no way I'm going to do that: if I ide with J (who I would side with) then I have to live with A giving me dirty looks for the remainder of the semester, and if I side with A... well, J's too good a friend.
But yeah, that's what's been going on with me. Tired of my drama yet?